| Location | Paddock Wood |
| Age | 4 months |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 31/01/2008 |
| Date of Death | 16/06/2008 |
| Visitors | 1,322 since 29/01/2010 |
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☆☆My Baby Boy Ellis Joshua Darke came into this world at home ont the 31st January 2008, he was a healthy weight and had a cubby little face,☆☆
Ellis was the most bueatiful little boy i ever saw well to me he was, but to others he wasnt, someone next door used to say what an ugly little boy he was i used to hide him when i took him out to make sure nextdoor didnt see him and make upseting comments to him,
Now i feel like a pathetic woman because i hid me beautiful son, After Ellis died and it was his funeral and the hearse pulled up with my little boys coffin in it i saw the women that called my son and ugly little 'c***' her husband came out and gave me a floral tribute of a star saying fighter on it and he said ' its NOT from the wife' 2days later they split, i felt a little better that she could not make uncalled for comments about my son, Ellis had a beautiful send off, My sister took pictures but im still not ready to look at them as its too soon after Archies death as well as Ellis's i still cant go into Ellis's bedroom, lucky we had a three bed so Leon had his own room when he was born and Ellis's didnt have to be touched at all,
When Ellis was a few months old he suddenly when ill and he was unable to poo and would cry when he needed to,
I took him to the doctors and they said Ellis had a bowel infection, he was really unwell and needed to go to hospital ASAP, they rung for an ambulance and they arrived within momments i wanted to carry my sone to the ambulance but they wouldnt allow me, they scooped him up an ran into the ambulance an laid im on the strecther and wired him up to heart monitors and oxygen and god knows what, a family friend saw them running with my boy and me following behind pushing his buggy she told me to go with him i was going to but i needed to sort the buggy out to, she took it off me, and we went to the hospital, Ellis's conditon started to deteriorate he was rushed to intensive care and he put up the biggest fight i have ever seen a 4month old infant do, he fought for sixteen hard and long days when his daddy and i got together again to for Ellis's sake we sat by baileys bed side and took it in turns to stay with him each night, on the 13th June i found out i was expecting another baby, i didnt want to have another baby if i couldnt even keep my 1st son alive, but i didnt want to get rid of my baby either, I told Ellis he was going to be a big brother on the 16th June and then 2 hours later Ellis's main organs started to shut down, his heart stopped beating and he stopped breathing the doctors and nurse done CPR on him for 25 long minutes and not a single improvement in Ellis they had to stop, When i heard the nurse say Time of death 12:21 my heart stopped and split in to, i couldnt belive what they where saying, i was looking around to make sure they where not talking about my Ellis, and they where he was the one of the youngest babies there and the illest,
Ellis just one moment more with you would heal my heart break only for a little while love you Ellis xxxxxxxx
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WELL FIRST THINGS FIRST HAPPY BIRTHDAY BEAUTIFUL!! and secondly your mums neighbour was a horrible spiteful lady, hope karma gets her! as you are a beautiful little boy and i think your mega cute melted my heart! And you share your birthday on my sons angel day (except he passed a year before) sure you and Nathan are great friends! Love to your family on your 4th birthday Sweet dreams to one of the most ebutiful little boys ive evr seen xxxx
Happy Birthday In Heaven - by Winnie Lovett
"Happy Birthday Ellis "
It's sure to be the best one yet,
Though you left us here behind.
Did you think that we'd forget?
Your cake this year, will surely be,
A beauty to behold.
With the icing made of Silver,
And the candles made of Gold.
Yes, your birthday in Heaven,
Will be such a grand affair.
And I know you'll look so lovely,
With a halo in your hair.
The Angels will come from everywhere,
To sing your birthday song.
And I know they'll be so happy,
That you've joined, God's Happy Throng.
No I can't send a card this year,
Or give a gift so fine.
So I'll just send a special prayer,
To that wonderful Son of yours.
Copyright of Winnie Lovett
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ELLIS
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Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday Ellis
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.
We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ELLIS
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bigs hugs from me to you and your family
and friends that you miss you ever day but
in our hearts forever you will not be forgotin
all my love hugs and xxxx from me Sylvie
mommy of Samantha Belanger and
Granddaughter of Albert and Marie-Jeanne
Belanger take care bye for now.
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Your invited to My First Birthday Party Ellis and Archie x
Dear Ellis and Archie
I'm going to be one years old on friday the 29th of October, and i'm having a big party in the sky. I hope you your going to come. Its going to be so much fun. There will be lots of sweeties and birthday cake, and lots of presents. And My Mammy and Daddy are going to let some balloons off so we can catch them.
Please please come.
Lots of love kisses and cuddles
Ellie Scarlet xxx
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The Lord needed a flower
and that flower was you
so he picked you up from down here
and up and up you flew
He planted you in his garden
he said 'You'll stay here now with me'
and there you'll stay away from harm
the prettiest flower you'll always be
But Jesus called the children to him and said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it."
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Remember Me"
(song by Deanna Edwards)
Remember me whenever you see a sunrise,
Remember me whenever you see a star,
Remember me whenever you see a rainbow
Or woods in autumn colors from afar.
Remember me whenever you see the roses
Or seagulls sailing high in a sky of blue.
Remember me whenever you see waves
Shining in the sun.
And remember, I'll be remembering you!
Remember me whenever you see a teardrop,
Or meadows still wet with the morning dew.
Remember me whenever you feel love
Growing in your heart.
And remember, I'll be remembering you!
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